Being considerate and submissive, is not always a good thing. One of the first thing I learned as a dom is that subs are quite easy to manipulate into doing things they don't like just because they are submissive. A little later I learned that it is very important as a dom, not to manipulate subs into doing things they don't like. Because they don't like it.

I'd say this guy does everything wrong. He's manipulative, inconsiderate and abusing his domly superpower.

The fact that you at all made this thread shows your great submissiveness. It's a great gift. I suggest giving it to someone who deserves it. That dom will be one lucky bastard.