How do I assert my position?

[cadence]

Thanks again everyone, I usually go by my gut instinct, and my gut just keeps telling me that this may not be a really great idea.
I just don't like being pushed when I am not ready.
I would prefer just to shelve the whole idea of doing any of this right now.

I also think it might be good for you to go with the lighter couple if you have not done any rt sessions.

It would be a better idea, but I want someone who has a bit of experience with this type of play, I do not want to just go and find anyone either.

Being considerate and submissive, is not always a good thing.

I'll be the first one to admit that I have a difficult time not to step on another's toes even when they need it.

The fact that you at all made this thread shows your great submissiveness. It's a great gift. I suggest giving it to someone who deserves it. That dom will be one lucky bastard.

Thank you Tom, that was nice of you to say

The problem I see you having immediately is how to get him out of your life. Maybe simply telling him to get lost will do it but if not you may have to use stronger language.

I just don't have to speak with him again, I just feel bad that he doesn't understand that I don't need someone to train or take over control of me, because they feel it is what I need.

Run cadence, now if you happen to run toward Denver minx and I would love to host you under any rules set by you and your Dom. I am heavily into both bondage and pleasure pain.

That is a real offer but also how he should have responded to you.

Thank you Sir Russell, if you lived closer to me, I would most definately consider it