hmmmm so the general consensus is it's all about personality and connection, regardless of age

so it's all just mere coincidence that a high majority of older men have younger women then?

please know, i'm not trying to make judgement here, just a curious thing that as i get older seems to be more prevelant i suppose and i was hoping to find a little insight by posing this

i myself, as stated above, have a huge preference to older men than i, it just seems the natural order to me, the same as Him being Dom to my sub, Him tall and large to my short and small, etc, but my 'natural' isn't going to be the same as everyone elses

it just seems this age thing works out for all, both vanilla and BDSM *smiles*