Quote Originally Posted by delia View Post
There are many subs out there who enjoy Dominating other subs. Does this make them switches? Or are they just subs with alpha sub tendencies? Is a sub in a 3-some who subs to the Dom but Doms the other sub a switch or an alpha sub?
That's what it all comes down to doesn't it?

I'm inherently submissive; however, my wife is also sub. When we go out to play with others, we have a few friends who are quite wonderfully dominant with us both, but when we are alone, I play the dom (and here's the point), and I ENJOY it. Therefore, I am switch.

Switching is not inherent, like dominance or submission. Switching (and the act of being a switch), comes from the necessity or desire to fulfill a role outside your norm.

In direct response to delia: A normally submissive person who is directed to dom another sub is an alpha sub. A normally submissive person who volunteers to dom another sub is a switch.