Are you and your Dom/me or sub

1) married/in a long term commited relationship My Master/husband and I have been married for almost 18 years.

2) real life We live it 24/7, we have 2 children one has left the nest and one is a couple if years away from leaving home, we keep discipline behind closed doors.

3) online with the hope of turning real life We met in middle school. SEVERAL years ago, LOL. We started out best friends, had a vanilla relationship for the first 3 years of marriage. I am the one that approached the lifestyle.

4) online only

Sub-Blizzard recently married her Master and I am curious on do people who started a relationship in BDSM and later marry have a happier marriage? I know for a fact that our marriage is better with hubby as HOH, and we rarely fight. I think our lifestyle definitely makes our marriage stronger. I don't think it matters if you start out in the lifestyle or not, we didn't, of course I had always needed it. It took me a while to work up the nerve to ask for it though. ( I felt like I was bad for wanting to be spanked and tied up.) The proof is in the pudding so to speak. Our marriage was on rocky ground for while but BDSM took out a lot of the reasons we fought. Once I learned to give up control, things just naturally worked themselves out.