I think everyone is allowed to play outside of their preferences and to experiment, but in the end it comes down to what you most desire to do: Dom or sub.

I was traditionally a top in my sexual relationships. I wanted to sub, I just hadn't found the right person or circumstances under which to do so. Yet, my underlying personality was still the desire and interest to sub, and the feeling that that's what I wanted. Though my past relationships were all fufilling intheir own right, I knew there was an element missing. So, even though I've topped more than subbed, I still consider myself a sub.

In my current D/s relationship, Master and I will play at switching because we both find it highly erotic for me to push to where He has to "put me back in my place." It's a fun little game and we both enjoy it yet at the end of the day He's still my Master and I'm still His sub. Wouldn't have it any other way!