I was in a Gorean relationship a long time ago, when I was a white silk kajira. I was involved in Gor before I was into anything else that was BDSM. To me Gor is a form of BDSM, only I see it as roleplaying. There are Goreans who claim to live the lifestyle, but I personally don't see how it is truly possible. I simply could not remain as a kajira. I just could not get into that mindset, so I left Gor and have never looked back.