I was discussing my last post with ffantassy, and she raised a very important point about one of my statements:
Couple this with the invoking a safe word, but retracting it 15 minutes later, again she was finding what she was receiving was too much, but 15 minutes later wanted to receive it again!
fantasy asked the question: did she revoke her use of the safeword, or was she cojoled into it by her husband/dom? This would make a very big difference! If she did this entirely herself, then I definitely stand by my posts, but if she was swayed, then I must agree with the abuse angle that others are seeing.

Brosco