FFantasy: this (revoking the safe word) happened a couple of times. I always obeyed it, but displayed frustration (verbally and with body language). However, she feels horrible if she doesn't satisfy me sexually, and thus revokes the safe word. Thus, will sometimes beg to have her pussy punished, even grab my hand and pull it towards her pussy. We are working on improving this as I know it is unhealthy for BOTH of US. Dongthong