Hi & welcome Claymore, I think anyone who isn't trying to figure themselves out to to some extent is probably dead.
Thanks for telling us about yourself- you're not the only Christian who's into bondage & D/s. After all it says in the bible that a wife should 'submit' to her husband...
Good point about the 'fawning attitude' I also believe a Dom/me has to earn respect, the same as anyone.
Hope you enjoy it here, by all means tell us about yourself, we'll listen!![]()
Tojo