[QUOTE=delish;574158]I am what He needs me to be.

I also want to address something somebody else said, which was that slaves offer a greater gift than submissives- I disagree, respectfully. I do believe that true slaves are much more rare than any flavour of submissive, but putting a value on x type of submission is baffling to me. Perhaps this is a defensive response, because I am not a slave and think that the chances I'd truly learn to be one are slim to none, but I'm not comfortable saying that my gift is somehow less because it's "common".

I do agree with the sentiment expressed that it's utterly wrong to place slaves as somehow less than submissives, for the precise reason listed above- it's just not quantifiable, to me.

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I apologise...i did not mean to offend anyone, it is just so often i hear that slaves are less because we have given up all rights. perhaps my defense mechanisms have kicked in as well. i do not believe i am less because i am a slave. And i dont believe that anyones gift is common. Far from that, i truly respect everyone who has given a gift of their submission, slave or not. Whatever your level of submission is between you and your Master...mine however looks at my slavery as the greatest gift that can be given. So in fact for me to say less would be disrespectful on my part.