Quote Originally Posted by submissivewife
Tojo, I can't beleive my reaction to this statement when I read this. Very bad phrase to pull. This statement has been used to keep the wife surpressed for years. My ex used this often to try and keep me with him or do something that I didn't care to do. He was abusive and an ass. I really thought I was past that kind of reaction to this phrase. I guess I was wrong.

Really everyone, there are a lot of us here that can identify as a Christian or of some other faith. You have that right as well as I do. There are those that don't identify as such or agree with everything that is preached.
I'm pretty sure Tojo only meant to encourage and welcome our new member by giving her a reference point. I don't think he meant to insult or demean anyone.

Welcome to the forums Claymore. Many of the members are Christians and I'm sure you'll be able to find the answers you're looking for.