Thanx for all the advice guys. Im definately going to take it slow (although its tough...since this is my first time, im eager to jump in and find out what the buzz is all about ). I've decided not to give out me email address yet...even though i have a seperate on i use for this stuff, i think giving it out indicates a step towards commitment, even if its very minor.

Im kinda hesitant because all of her replies are very straight forward, and abrupt....no details or background, just the answer. But i dont want to jump to any conclusions yet. Im just gonna chalk it up to age (she's 19 according to her profile) and thus lack of experience.

my advice is simple be careful on CM their people seem to believe that you have to be a control freak and a sadist to be a Dominant.
Ya i've noticed that too....its a lot of "do what i say because im better then you, and you're worthless". Its a big turn off.