I have to say that we both love anal. I get very excited when I hear he is going to take my ass. Normally I clean up for this and try to keep myself ready "just in case".
We don't use it as punishment. But in roleplay we do use it, in which I play innocent and beg him not too. Of course I am begging him to, please, please, inside my head. :P
I have to say it is one of my favorite sex acts. Personally I prefer he doesn't use lube. I like the ache it gives and I am so ready for it there is not need most of the time.
He would never make me orally to satisfy him after, unless he wears a condom. Which we do use on occasion for fun, but not on a regular basis. On the other hand he has no problem pulling out at that critical moment to spin me around and jack into my mouth or on my face. He finds this very thrilling and I find that it does arouse me to be used in such a way. This happens in our morning shower routine quite often.