Delia,
You missed the point of my "flame" I think. I stand by what I said he is in my opinion an asshole and any who believe what he does are the same. I wasn't limiting it to Gor but to any that feels that they have the one and only true way and if that way includes the Dom being like that then yes I will stand by what I said.

Gor may be great for role play but when taken into real life without making any exceptions for it then it is harmful.

Just as I would have the same opinion about an out right sadist that lives only to inflict pain is not part of any lifestyle that will ever claim me.