Assholes happen. Your right I don't agree with all you hold as right but if it works for you then great. When it is imposed on others as the only true way I can feel the hair on the back of my neck rise. This is true for all not just Goreans.

Those that use it as a background for sane decisions then great. Those that think that it is the only way I doubt their sanity. That is not just to gor but to any way of life. If it works for you great.

I have seen though these guys that know the one true way to often and mostly they burn through women without ever admitting that she has value.