Quote Originally Posted by mastersgem View Post
my apologies to anyone who was offended by this thread, it wasn't meant to pigeonhole anyone but to try to have a look at different variations for the fun of it simply

i've had some (especially new subs), say they learned something about themselves looking at this thread and that is a good thing, no?

we all strive to be individually us and no one has to fit into any of these categories since the bottom line of a submissive is to please and be pleasing simply

if you didn't find the fun or it didn't provoke any thought process, that's entirely fine, just don't play lol

thanks to all who came to me saying they enjoyed it, i appreciate it


*open minds lead to better learning? isn't that what we all preach to the vanilla society? open your mind and try to accept a different view? a new side to learning? hmmmmm*

anyway........................gone to read other topics lol
*hugs* i enjoyed the thread and it did get me thinking.

unless ive misunderstood some of the posts , i dont understand why people are offended or annoyed by others not wanting to be 'labelled'

you can use generalised terms to describe yourself but as an individual nobody fits into a perfect catagory.and the majority of people can be many different things at many different times.

perhaps if we need a label we should also consider ourselves criminals,sick,twisted perverted etc ? as in many countrys thats the title/name we are given by most of society.


also re-reading the posts the majority of us have done our best to try and describe the type of submissive/slaves we are into some of the terms (and thats all they really are) used for bdsm.and it can be fun trying to work out where you 'fit into' it all

people should be proud to call themselves and be a unique person as well as proud to call themselves and be a submissive etc

i hope i havnt offended anybody either!, im sorry if i have.