Quote Originally Posted by devil-in-high-heels
Hi all

I'm fairly new to all of this, having been introduced to (some aspects of)BDSM by my boyfriend. I guess I'm looking for some advice/support/ pushes in the right direction! I was also wondering how everyone else here decided this was for them? To be honest, I've always been very vanilla, but felt something was missing. It's like walking to the top of a hill and seeing a great big expanse of uncharted ground in front of me! It's kind of intimidating, but I guess finding out about stuff is half the fun!

DIHH

Hello devil-in-high-heels, don't be timid around here. Ask questions many will be happy to lend support. I know what you mean about "something was missing". Always felt that way...then I was introduced to BDSM. Now I know what was missing. I love this lifestyle and won't go back to vanilla. Hope you enjoy the forums.