I wear my collar 24/7 and while Master doesn't demand that I wear particular clothes, He will pick them out for me if He really wants me to wear something. I always do the cooking and cleaning. And up until a few months ago I had a job (I had to leave for health reasons, though I am in the process of job hunting now). Since W/we don't know any other D/s couples, O/our friends are vanilla (though my best friend is beginning to go towards the kinky lifestyle).