Your Welcome orchid. For me it's a nice diversion... but I really would enjoy a new real life relationship... understanding that I don't intend to end or change the relationships I also currently enjoy.

Whether that's because I'm polyamourus or just not monogamous by nature, I can't say. Nature or nurture... I saw the same attitudes in my parents... though they tended to flaunt it... That part I don't seem to have inherited.