It seems the right place, but there are so many reasons why ppl end up in D/s... in fact many trace their feelings back to playing 'cowboys and indians' as kids... and even then, it was just something that sparked what was already a part of them.

There is no doubt that our lifes experiences influences our directions, but I believe that many of our experiences (positive or nrgative) spark what was hidden with in us anyway.

Brosco