Hello there. I've never been in a D/s relationship, and right now I'm NOT looking for one, I just would like guidance, as I'm still very confused. Only not to recently I have come to full terms with my being Bisexual. I've always found the lifestyle to peak my intrest. I have friends who are active in a non-vanilla relationship, whom which I talk about these kinda things constantly. I know I still have a lot to learn about my self, and what I like, but I've always found the sub end of the spectrum more me, and would perhaps like a little guidance. But again I'm not looking for a relationship but rather more info about trying to learn about where I fit in this big world, and how to keep my self safe.

(sidenote: now in retrospec I should have picked a better name...... oh well.)