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    Ok let’s see if this works for a male subbie then : -


    An almost obsession with cleaning. No

    Trying every new cleaning product that comes out (then almost always going back to their regular brands). Sometimes

    Detesting body hair (on themselves) Yes

    More concern with personal hygiene Yes

    Sticking strictly to routines (their own not given tasks) No

    All special offers i.e. buy one get one free (even when it’s something they wouldn’t normally buy) Yes

    Animal lovers Yes

    Have more difficulty disciplining children No

    Become easily hurt when criticised Yes

    Perceiving criticism often when its not even there Difficult – but I’d guess Yes

    Difficulty or confusion to adjusting to new routines. No

    Generally more highly sexed and sexual than vanillas Yes [though to generalise]

    Less likely to send food or take faulty goods back Yes

    Feisty tempers Oh Yes

    Take more pride in their appearance Yes

    Prefer less clutter in their household Yes

    Abused when young – NO

    Well, more Yes’s than No’s so I guess that’s me then – a real subbie

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    sub-timmi, thanks! We hear so rarely on the forums from our brothers in submission...I'm glad you shared.
    Working too much....and unfortunately not online as much as I'd like.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanne View Post
    sub-timmi, thanks! We hear so rarely on the forums from our brothers in submission...I'm glad you shared.
    I agree with jeanne and extend my thanks as well - it's good hearing from your side of the fence sub_timmi
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    maybe we should add one in especially for the male subs ......reluctant to post regularly lol ...naa just kidding

    im not arty to say the least !! my art consist of colouring in books and hand/feet paintings...i kid you not lol

    although im very good at matching colour schemes and arranging things exactly in line, furniture ornaments anything really, does that count?

    another one and people are really gonna love me for this please dont take offence *takes a deep breath* a fairly high percentage seem to have some form of mental health disorder or problems .

    oh and a bad habit of putting things such as smileys and sayings in between * *s lol see above paragraph!

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    Quote Originally Posted by icey View Post
    maybe we should add one in especially for the male subs ......reluctant to post regularly lol ...naa just kidding

    im not arty to say the least !! my art consist of colouring in books and hand/feet paintings...i kid you not lol

    although im very good at matching colour schemes and arranging things exactly in line, furniture ornaments anything really, does that count?

    another one and people are really gonna love me for this please dont take offence *takes a deep breath* a fairly high percentage seem to have some form of mental health disorder or problems .

    oh and a bad habit of putting things such as smileys and sayings in between * *s lol see above paragraph!
    *giggles madly* too funny icey hun - I do that * * all the time but never put it as a sub thing - having thought about it now though, you may be right :P and I can't live without using smilies lmao

    the mental health thing...hmmmmm...what issues I had I think stemmed more from the abuse I suffered for so many years but who knows it could very well be part of the wiring that is sub - I don't profess to be unique in any way and I do believe there are common strokes amongst submissives (female anyway) - there has to be, just the same as there are Type "A" personalities in life, there has to be something "Type" wise in us - it's just too bad so many feel they HAVE to be different or argumentative just for the sake of being argumentative or we might actually find out what those Type characteristics are
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    perhaps thats another one? feeling they have to be different or argumentative just for the sake of being argumentative? c'mon how many will admit to that one? i put my hands up to that one at times .. hehe im starting to think this thread could be fun

    i have to ask,what is a type A personality? i have a personality disorder (BPD) hence my unusal opinions at times lol
    but ive never heard of that,is it a disorder?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mastersgem View Post
    the mental health thing...hmmmmm...what issues I had I think stemmed more from the abuse I suffered for so many years but who knows it could very well be part of the wiring that is sub - I don't profess to be unique in any way and I do believe there are common strokes amongst submissives (female anyway) - there has to be, just the same as there are Type "A" personalities in life, there has to be something "Type" wise in us - it's just too bad so many feel they HAVE to be different or argumentative just for the sake of being argumentative or we might actually find out what those Type characteristics are
    I'm in the same boat as mgem...though in a single event, not throughout the years. But I always wonder if it would be any different. I guess I'll never know for sure.

    As for the rest...
    crying easily at sad movies - and sappy commercials and Hallmark cards and...you get the idea.
    low boredom threshold - Can I just say that class is almost hell for me every single day? I have a rucksack full of activities to keep me entertained and fortunately, was an only child that learned such activities early in life.
    wants everything done yesterday - hehe...add that with senioritis in the month before I graduate and...ummm...its a miracle that I even bother with homework.
    nothing you do ever feels quite good enough - I always thought this was my "only child" symptom, but now I know!
    dislikes sci-fi and action movies (that could be just me lol) - I may have to disagree. I love the Xmen flicks, Italian Job, Casino Royale, etc. Sci fi, well, I like that less...

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    Quote Originally Posted by newslave View Post
    dislikes sci-fi and action movies (that could be just me lol) - I may have to disagree. I love the Xmen flicks, Italian Job, Casino Royale, etc. Sci fi, well, I like that less...

    I have to retract part of my answer haha - when I said I didn't like action films, I meant like Rambo, the never ending series or Die Hard and those kinds - I LOVED "The Italian Job"!!! and Xmen too hehe :P I mostly love Van Helsing type shows - Covenant and Cult like movies - so so hot!! *drools a lil* hehe
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