I've always believed it's possible, particularly with women abused from an early age- or men for that matter I guess.

One of my partners always loved 'rough sex' & fantasies about being strangled & so forth. She had a lifetime of abuse, from an early age.

While I realise there's probably no such thing as a 'rape fantasy' in actual fact- many women who have a history of abuse seem to have them.

The thing is, the statistics are pretty darn high, last I heard 3 out of 5 women had suffered some sort of abuse sometime in their lives. Which doesn't take into account the unreported cases.

Kind of gives the impression that the majority of fantasies come from abused women?

Just my thoughts here anyway, & I've spent many many hours listening to people's stories.

This topic leads me to think of another related one, but this isn't the place for it really. I also hesitate to bring it up for fear of starting a big kerfuffle. I'll let someone else do that!

Tojo