i'm new to this. i'm in my 30's but consoder myself a virgin in all this. my rl cherry has never been popped in the sun/ dom world.as a good catholic girl i dreamed of punishment for my sins- to be locked away & made to pay for the burning i felt. my real life is quite in the mainstream. i've recently begun to allow myself to feel the pull that i have always had toward the sub life. i'm looking for a strong male sub to explode my fantasies. i still don't know what my boundaries are.