The Anticlimax

[TomOfSweden]

Most people need to snuggle after sex. This is the reason.

[Isabella King]

Most people need to snuggle after sex. This is the reason.

There was no snuggle. This wasn't even sex - in the true sense of the word - just relief for me and it was carried out in a rather business like fashion.

Sex, for us, is becoming more about his pleasure and less about mine. He is very generous with his hugs and kisses and cuddles after we have indulged in any kind of sex that culminates in his climax but I have noticed, of late, that - even though I enjoy all of our play - my orgasms are increasingly being separated from…um, anything sexual, I suppose.

NB: I should point out that I am pretty turned on by the whole denial thing but I'm just a bit scared about the ultimate consequencies. I don't want to ask him if he's sure about what he's doing but I suppose I'd like someone to come along and say, I've been there - and it's hot!

[icey]

ive never had to do the orgasm denial thing for extended lengths of time only while were playing, so im probably not qualified to answer.
but ive found that at those times when im denied it and i get all worked up once i am allowed to i explode! and would have thought that even after an extended period i would still react the same

Sex, for us, is becoming more about his pleasure and less about mine.

or maybe this is partly the problem?