Quote Originally Posted by newby View Post
i was being willful w/ my Man on the phone earlier today & didnt really realize it till after the fact. We are both very new to D/s & while He has no hesitation about being dominant in the bedroom, day to day stuff is still a work in progress. i want to be more submissive, for Him to put me in my place. i want a task to remind me when i step out of line but i'm not sure He even realizes a task would be in order. So here's my question...should i "top from the bottom" & say 'hey, i was bad, make me do something' or should i just do something & say 'i did so & so to remind myself i belong to You'? Or is there another answer that i havent thought of??
honey, i've been in the "life" a long time. i have a "new to the life Master". when you get the answer to this please pass it on. i've tried everything and then some, and it's still not right. i guess like i've said before, either you've got it or you don't.
keep experimenting and having fun till you figure it out.hehehe
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