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    Pleasure from Physical Pain

    I'd like to ask a few questions to all who care to answer. Basically my interest is in whether I can find someone to relate to.
    Please feel free to elaborate on your answers if you wish to.

    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain?
    What is your favourite method of receiving pain?
    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain?
    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself?
    Can you climax without pain?
    Can you climax just from receiving pain?

    Thanks for answering. I might post my answers... depending on what everyone else writes!
    Last edited by Slutsie; 02-27-2008 at 12:34 PM. Reason: typo

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    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain? ....yes!! any type of pain when we're playing...even if its a pain i dont like

    What is your favourite method of receiving pain? ....it can vary...i like being cut,pierced,flogged, clamps,hot wax, cheese grater,floggers,paddles,whippings,general rough stuff,spanking,cigs anything you can think of and anything you cant lol

    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain?...anywhere except my feet and my inner thighs!

    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself? yes ...for most of my life lol

    Can you climax without pain? .....being honest?? i dont know ive never tried..with vanilla partners i would do my best to encourage them to give some type of pain...if not id do it myself lol

    Can you climax just from receiving pain? ....yes i usually do lol

    i hope you're going to give your answers too

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slutsie View Post
    I'd like to ask a few questions to all who care to answer. Basically my interest is in whether I can find someone to relate to.
    Please feel free to elaborate on your answers if you wish to.

    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain?
    That's a pretty broad question, but the simple answer is no. If I stub my toe, I'm pissed. If someone other than my Master were to ever hurt me, again, pissed. In the realm of BDSM, however, I lean pretty heavily towards being a painslut. If there is just a touch of underlying sexual pleasure, the pain does nothing but enhance that. Knowing I can endure it is also a source of pride and thus pleasure.

    Quote Originally Posted by Slutsie View Post
    What is your favourite method of receiving pain?
    Two favorites: nipple clamps and/or the crop/cane.

    Quote Originally Posted by Slutsie View Post
    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain?
    Kinda' fond of having my nipples payed attention to.

    Quote Originally Posted by Slutsie View Post
    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself?
    Eh, a little tweak here and there but for the most part no. Part of the pleasure in the pain for me is letting go and the trust to allow another person to do those things to me. Focusing on administering pain to myself takes me out of that head space.

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    Can you climax without pain?
    Yes, and it can be quite enjoyable but I do prefer the intensity of a the pain, whether it be a little or a lot.

    Quote Originally Posted by Slutsie View Post
    Can you climax just from receiving pain?
    If it's in the right spot, sure.

    Quote Originally Posted by Slutsie View Post
    Thanks for answering. I might post my answers... depending on what everyone else writes
    Aww c'mon, share with the group!

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    Painful Enema

    My Mistress wants to give me a very painful with hard cramps. We have never tried enemas. But both want me to learn pain is good for slave. We have read about cold tap water. 2qt water 1 cup lemon juice and soap. Is this a good one to start with.[ Butt pug for ten mintue. While being spank. Mistress just had me add this part] Being a sub is the some fun in life i've ever had. I love learning to obey. We live in Binghamton ny.

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    amber,
    Tell J I am becoming very mmmm jealous here.

    I love to mix pain with pleasure starting with pleasure then blending in the pain. I can be very creative in both the pleasure and the pain. I love to put nipple clips on her once she is restrained plus clips on labia lips then I love to take a vibrator and run it on the chains to the clips then to the labia lips clips.

    Spank her as I enter any part of her while pulling on the chain between the nipple clips. Then there is pussy spanking mixed with pinching around it then alternated that with a feather duster's spinning tips on the clit. God so many ways to make her beg to cum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
    amber,
    Tell J I am becoming very mmmm jealous here.

    I love to mix pain with pleasure starting with pleasure then blending in the pain. I can be very creative in both the pleasure and the pain. I love to put nipple clips on her once she is restrained plus clips on labia lips then I love to take a vibrator and run it on the chains to the clips then to the labia lips clips.

    Spank her as I enter any part of her while pulling on the chain between the nipple clips. Then there is pussy spanking mixed with pinching around it then alternated that with a feather duster's spinning tips on the clit. God so many ways to make her beg to cum.

    So many ways indeed... Mmm...

    And I'm sure I speak for J as well when I say your "jealousy" is a great compliment to us both, Sir.

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    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain? If I have a moment to adjust to the pain I can usually learn to cope with it and then enjoy it.
    What is your favourite method of receiving pain? I enjoy being spanked all over.
    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain? My breasts and bottom
    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself? Yes, sometimes when I masturbate.
    Can you climax without pain? Yes, but it's much easier to climax with pain
    Can you climax just from receiving pain? No, but I'd love to learn how

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slutsie View Post
    I'd like to ask a few questions to all who care to answer. Basically my interest is in whether I can find someone to relate to.
    Please feel free to elaborate on your answers if you wish to.

    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain?
    What is your favourite method of receiving pain?
    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain?
    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself?
    Can you climax without pain?
    Can you climax just from receiving pain?

    Thanks for answering. I might post my answers... depending on what everyone else writes!
    Yes, I get pleasure from just about any kind of pain that Master gives to me.
    There are several ways that give me pleasure: floggings, spankings with His hand, belt or paddle, hot wax, clamps.
    I prefer to receive pain on my breasts and my butt.
    No, I've enver administered pain to myself.
    Yes, I can climax without receiving pain.
    Yes, I can climax from just receiving pain.
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    There was some great replies to similar questions in these threads, enjoy;
    http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=14017
    http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=14018
    leaves me breathless thinking about them

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    Aaaah thank you ^_^

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    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain?

    Most types, yes. But not all.

    What is your favourite method of receiving pain?
    I like being spanked or whipped, cut, slapped, pinched. Basically anything, as long as it doesn't involve burning. (Cigarettes, hot wax)

    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain?

    Anywhere but my feet and my neck.

    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself?

    Yes, I'm usually the one to cause pain in myself due to the long distance relationship we are in. I much prefer it when he can be the one hurting me, though. It feels just amazing when someone you love and trust is inflicting pain on you.

    Can you climax without pain?

    Yes. I usually do without pain.

    Can you climax just from receiving pain?

    I don't actually know yet, we haven't gone very far in person. I'm sure I could get very close to it.

    doesn't anybody want to play?

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    Another lovely topic...let's see

    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain?

    Yes. However, i enjoy a slow build up of pain from light pinches and smacks to eventually "OWWWwwwwwwwwww!"

    What is your favorite method or receiving pain?

    So many choices, so little time. I LOVE the flogger. i also adore nipple clamps, hot wax, spankings (to any area of my body, although breasts and labia are the most sensitive), hair pulling, the crop, and as i get to experiment more, i'll come back and add *smiles*

    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain?

    Everywhere but my feet

    Have you ever deliberately administered pain to yourself?

    Yes, but i believe there is an intrinsic part of our psyche that prevents us from administering too much pain to ourselves. Therefore, i fiind it much more enjoyable to have the pain administered by another.

    Can you climax without pain?

    Yes.

    Can you climax from receiving pain alone?

    Again, yes. Especially if the pain is centered around the breast and vaginal area.
    There are only four words that bring joy to my heart...."Well done little one"

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    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain?
    No. I hate slaps but I love a nice thin cane.

    What is your favourite method of receiving pain?
    That would be the nice thin cane

    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain?
    I'm not heavily into pain but it's good on my ass, my thighs, my pussy and my tits.

    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself?
    No.

    Can you climax without pain?
    Yes.

    Can you climax just from receiving pain?
    No.

    I think my kicks come more from humiliation, denial and suppression these days
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    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain?
    I have received some interesting forms and amounts of pain, but sexually it haven't tried needles or deep blade cuts just shallow ones and I haven't had too much whipping done but so far I enjoy pain, breaking my skin seems to add a new level.

    What is your favourite method of receiving pain?
    I would say either a razor blade (though I get more blood then pain from that), and nails
    long nail like normal real nails girls have scratch me till it burns like cold fire.

    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain? neck though it is hard to hide the marks I have kind of fallen into having it done on my torso wrist is a fun place to be bitten.
    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself? Yes many times

    Can you climax without pain? yes but it isn't as intense,

    Can you climax just from receiving pain? I might be able to but I haven't yet maybe if the circumstances where right and I was turned on the right way.

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    can i add a question to this?
    does anyone like pain on top of pain ..by that i mean fresh pain on flesh still tender,bruised swollen etc from the day before,

    yep i know the bdsm bible says thats a no no but you've got to have some fun

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    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain?
    While the sensation of cutting my finger washing the dishes isn't what i'd consider to be pleasurable, it do got a bit of a sexual twinge from it. Not as much as a well dripped candle, mind you, but the act of the assault is the same.


    What is your favourite method of receiving pain?
    Something prolonged. Nipple clamps or a clit clamp come to mind.


    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain?
    The most nerve sensitive points, again, nipples and clit.


    Have you ever deliberately administered pain to yourself?
    As most of my sessions are online, yes.


    Can you climax without pain?
    Yes i can, and do, often.


    Can you climax just from receiving pain?
    Yes, was very suprised the first time it happened, but find it most pleasurable.

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    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain? Like some others have said, I get pleasure from pain only when it's inflicted on me as an act of submission or if I inflict it on myself. I broke my collarbone a bit over a year ago, and it wasn't a pleasurable experience at all.

    What is your favourite method of receiving pain? For me it's slow, incremental application. One clothespin ... wait ...then another. then another. Or even to have a Domme close each clothespin slowly, excrutiatingly. Each one added brings the pain up a notch to where I'm far past what I could stand if they were all applied at once, and where I'm aching to relieve the pain ... or something.

    Flogging/spanking/caning same concept. Light ... slow ... odd intervals. Build up.


    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain? The skin of my scrotum and my nipples.

    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself? Yes.

    Can you climax without pain? Yes.

    Can you climax just from receiving pain? Not yet. **grin** but I'm hoping someone will bring me to that new level soon!

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    Does it count that I love turning pain into pleasure?

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    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain?

    I would say many, but not most. It depends on the relationship and the intention behind it more than the physical sensation -- for instance, having a lover drip hot wax on me, great, having some asshole spill his coffee on me in Starbucks, not so much.

    What is your favourite method of receiving pain?

    Probably being smacked with a bare hand. Also, being forced/instructed to work my muscles to the point of failure, as in a really intense workout class.

    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain?

    My inner thighs, or my neck.

    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself?

    Sometimes, yes. I like to take out my masochistic impulses by pushing myself hard at the gym -- that way everyone says "wow, you're in good shape!" rather than "where did those bruises come from?"

    Can you climax without pain?

    Yes.

    Can you climax just from receiving pain?

    I haven't yet, but I would really like to try.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
    Does it count that I love turning pain into pleasure?
    Are you KIDDING?? Of course!! *glances around to make sure lightening is not about to strike because I just shouted in the face of a Dom* The combination of the two sensations is the ultimate form of fufillment for someone like me...

    When something like a good cropping is coupled with an element of pleasure, my body does not recognize the feeling of the crop as "pain," per se. Instead, I become overwhelmed and my body confuses itself as to what is a "good touch" and what is "bad." All I know at that point is the feeling of intensity, and the more intense the better!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DowntownAmber View Post
    All I know at that point is the feeling of intensity, and the more intense the better!
    Same here. I feel like I live in my head a lot of the time, and sometimes the only thing that can bring me out of it is really intense physical sensation.

    It's also damn pretty to look at. From the other perspective, that is.
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    the closer to orgasm the more i like pain but it has to stop right after i cum

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    it makes me want even more..then i cum again

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    Quote Originally Posted by icey View Post
    can i add a question to this?
    does anyone like pain on top of pain ..by that i mean fresh pain on flesh still tender,bruised swollen etc from the day before,

    yep i know the bdsm bible says thats a no no but you've got to have some fun
    i luv the thought of being punished 2 or more times but when it happens it turns out to be not as great as i think it should be it just plain hurts which is ok, thats why i luv to be punished to feel the hurt and to take it for my mistress

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slutsie View Post
    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain?
    I get pleasure from most types of pain inflicted by another..
    What is your favourite method of receiving pain? Thats a hard one. For me it's not so much the implement as it is the progression. Though I really love the cane and bare hand
    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain?
    Bottom chest and of course a nice smack to the vaginal area can be quite enjoyable
    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself? Yes
    Can you climax without pain? I can, but I much prefer to climax with it
    Can you climax just from receiving pain? I have before but it needs to be under certain circumstances
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    Just thought that though I'd agreed with most here i'd still add my little bit to this :-
    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain? Yes
    What is your favourite method of receiving pain? Spank/cane is good but also fron CBT - favorite is NT
    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain? Nipples - Butt
    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself? Yes
    Can you climax without pain? Yes
    Can you climax just from receiving pain?
    Not yet

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    Quote Originally Posted by icey View Post
    can i add a question to this?
    does anyone like pain on top of pain ..by that i mean fresh pain on flesh still tender,bruised swollen etc from the day before,

    yep i know the bdsm bible says thats a no no but you've got to have some fun
    I had this happen to me for the first time last week, so I feel like I should come back to the thread to say yes, I do like that.
    I love myself, I want you to love me
    When I feel down I want you above me
    I search myself, I want you to find me
    I forget myself, I want you to remind me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by subserviant View Post
    ....but it has to stop right after i cum


    I definitely agree about it having to stop after the orgasm subsides, but i usually only need a minute or so...and if the pain was accompanied by a clamp (or 3!), removing it will cause me to orgasm again, with the return of the previously constricted blood flow...although not a deeply as the first....


    and as a side note, the lasting after-effects are wonderful also, the ache the next day as you go about your work, reminding you of an amazing session....

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    Quote Originally Posted by butterflySlave4u View Post


    I definitely agree about it having to stop after the orgasm subsides, but i usually only need a minute or so...and if the pain was accompanied by a clamp (or 3!), removing it will cause me to orgasm again, with the return of the previously constricted blood flow...although not a deeply as the first....
    and as a side note, the lasting after-effects are wonderful also, the ache the next day as you go about your work, reminding you of an amazing session....
    mmm gotta love the after-effects..has been enjoying the ache along her back. a bit uncomfortable but still delicious in memory of how they got there.

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    Do you get pleasure from most types of pain? Yes

    What is your favourite method of receiving pain? still learning about that one,. but for now, I like the whipping/spanking.

    Where on your body do you most like to feel pain? ass, nipples

    Have you ever deliberatly administered pain to yourself? Yes

    Can you climax without pain? Yes

    Can you climax just from receiving pain? no
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