Quote Originally Posted by Ruby
Great point, Oz, about Nat and I switching to LDR.

However, before we met, our online/phone relationship was extremely satisfying. It still is.

Would I want Nat and I living out our fantasies on a daily basis - with him by my side? Tempting, but my productivity would drop to an all time low. That is at work, not in the domming.

* wicked grin *

So... when does a relationship become "real life"?
When you finally meet?
Talk on the phone?
When?

Ever curious.

Ruby
We are human animals. Evolved to be social. The need to see, hear, and foremost, to touch, is bred into our bones. All of the inventions throughout the ages, which have facillitated communications, have not, can not, imo, replace human contact.

That's all I'm saying.

And I'm not belittling the other. I'm here afterall. A committed online participant. But I recognize I need more.

I envy you Ruby... you've found it. And while you joke about lost productivity... if you could... I believe you would. And would do it successfully, just as we all manage the different parts of living.