Edumdosloth,
I am sorry to say that your post judges anothers tastes with a clear lack of knowledge on the topic. First understand that very few internet relationships rely on the written word for communication - most use at least voice communication and some also add visual (webcam).

We have five senses and they are all used in a relationship of true depth. I will not subscribe to the way of thinking that says electronic transmissions of our intentions can be a substitute. Merely an imitation.
So if a person if deaf or blind in a r/l situation you suggest that they cannot have a fullfilling relationship??? They also only have an imitation? OMG .. who is sad?

Division between fantasy and reality? Come on now... do you suggest there is no place for fantasy? Are you so limited in your 'reallife' that fantasy isn't used?

I do not say that an on-line relationship is bad. I do point out that it is a pale substitute for a human one.
You may point out all you like that doesn't work for you - but don't dare suggest that you can speak for all others.

Brosco