As i see there is a bit of information missing. Ill explain a bit more.
I think he is a good man and a good Dom. He has known he has been a Dom all his life and studyed the subject for along time. It was however his first RL experience. And is experiencing doubt. This brings me to this question. How does other Doms felt after there first real life experience and is this normal for him to be questioning himself?

He is no longer in the other relationship, but still into her. He did ask me for time to figure this out, but didnt ask for me waiting, but i did say id wait for him, ( how stupid us woman can be ). To find another Dom is a bit of a problem because where i live, i doubt there is much people in the lifestyle. I could find a Dom online, but humm? well i kinda hoped for the real thing.

I am very happy i have found what i was, and to have found this site. I see that people here suport each other and i think in this lifestyle this is one thing we sure need.

Anyway thanks again everyone for your support i realy apreciate this.

( sorry for my spelling i am french)