He is no longer in the other relationship, but still into her. He did ask me for time to figure this out, but didnt ask for me waiting, but i did say id wait for him, ( how stupid us woman can be ). To find another Dom is a bit of a problem because where i live, i doubt there is much people in the lifestyle. I could find a Dom online, but humm? well i kinda hoped for the real thing.
Wait, he said he wanted time to figure things out. What's wrong with that? OK, sure, it sucks that you don't want to have to wait, but it's not fair to act like he's some demon who dumped you and broke your heart when he just wants to know if that relationship's right for him