Lactation

[willbow]

I would like to weigh in on this if I may. This is my first posting so please bear with me.

I belong to a lot of the adult breast feeding forums on yahoo and others and mostly lurk there because I think that milleu is such that what I would have to say would probably not be well received and really .. life is too short. I feel better about it here so I'll give it a go

I'm an RN by training but there is a huge difference from that as a profession and ones own personal indulgences for eroticisim/sexual needs-fulfillment - they should never meet. That said, I have always had this thing for women's breasts and love women who revel in it themselves.

The information most give is accurate to a point in terms of physiology, but, IMHO it needs to be look at from a more wholistic point of view. That is taking in all of the psycho sexual implications of a woman's breasts, what they mean to her, and the desire to experience lactation.

Geez .. I hope this isn't sounding too dry .. please forgive as I do not respond to these things too often.

Let me address the psycho sexual implications first. This is the part that is usually skipped or danced around in the venues I had alluded to earlier. Self honesty is an absolute must. I cannot overemphasize how important that aspect is especially for the woman. She really must be ok with admitting to herself and her partner that is is her breasts that hold her fascination or even preoccupation (perhaps even fetish) in the sense of they are her major triggers for sexual arousal and that fulfilling that to satisfaction is the key to all other things sexual, and, ultimately coital. - sounds pretty normal to me!

No, really, I am unabashedly a "breast man", and, if I may, I do have a counterpart, the "breast woman". I like to say, "all women have breasts, but not all women are 'breast women'". I'll give a url at the end where breast people, men and women, go into this and I urge all to take a look and see if they can understand. I honestly seek out such women because to me it really is much kinder and gentler to go out there and ask for exactly what you want. Again, this is the important matter of self-honesty that I was talking about. All the women who I've had the pleasure of knowing or communicating frankly about this have, to a person, said that they have never been able to say to a lover "make love to my tits" and really revel in it for the total fulfillment of her needs. Trust me, as a "breast man", the fulfillment of her needs is the fulfillment of my needs! So you can see, absolute self-honesty, especially on the part of the woman, is an absolute must!

Please forgive as I can see I am going to run long on this .. please let me know if this is helpful and would like me to continue

Until the next installment

Be Well

[willbow]

oops .. I forgot the url's

http://www.erotica-writers.com/ERA/ITEM/Breast_Play.htm

http://www.erotica-writers.com/ERA/I..._Lactation.htm

Please feel free to leave me a private message if you wish.

[redEva]

i absolutely agree with you and that is one of the reasons i truly believe that forums like this are useful tool ... how many places can one go and meet a person and say : "i love making love to tits! do you like that too!?" lol ... yes please continue!

i would love to hear what, if any advice, you would have professionally for inducing?

welcome to the library i hope you enjoy it

[willbow]

Thankyou So Much

Yes .. please forgive if I cannot continue till tomorrow but Thankyou

Yes indeed I have much more to say ..

Please help guide my writing by asking questions any time you want

[willbow]

Back ... I've been thinking about the best way to communicate what I have to say .... If you've noticed I tend to write in long sentences .. It's just me .. as I find that logic is linear and perhaps is "essentially" correct .. but true understanding is much less so. So forgive me for being non-sequitorial, I will do my best to make it worth your effort.

I want to touch on the physiological aspects of inducing lactation. Believe it or not it is fairly straight forward. What has been said about it being a matter of hormones is correct. The two hormones of particular interest being prolactin and oxytocin.

Prolactin is present in trace amts both males and females, of course much more so in females .. one can say that the normal higher amts present in the female is part of the very definition of being "female". There is also a matter of receptors but that is beyond the scope of this brief (I don't know what to call it) essay perhaps.

Prolactin is actually an orgasm supressant, and no, this is not a bad thing. It is what allows women to be multi-orgasmic. If you could show it on a graph or oscilloscope it would like like sine waves of widely varying amplitude over a longer time period (a note from me: believe it or not this is an "essay" about tits!) Men, on the otherhand, tend to "spend all their cookies at one time" so-to-speak. *GRINS* It's just the way it is

Ok .. the important stuff .. and these are ballpark figures but .. prolactin levels rise sharply (as opposed to the normal trace amts) with orgasm - about 10X. With pregnancy prolactin levels rise 100x or higher.

Oxytocin, also called the "love hormone", is what it is. Trust me, if you had an orgasm your oxytocin levels rose sharply. It also is the mechanism of the letdown reflex in the lactating woman. There are a lot of other things, but, in a nutshell, I think I've explained it pretty good.

Believe it or not the physiology of it is just that simple.

All this is published stuff - I don't think I've done very much more than reiterate it.

I'm running long again so please forgive if I need to go. I will continue I promise.


Thankyou so much redEVA for your encouraging words

I'm not totally sure what you mean by "professionally". I suppose from the physiological aspect it is a "professional" opinion.

There is a topic I will broach in later installments about "professional" assistance for women who would like "treatments" from a "therapist" to achieve this goal. I do this actually

I don't think in terms of financial remuneration for my "services" as this opens up legal implications and grey areas that I would not even want to try to reconcile in any kind of way. I think you can understand this. I don't encourage quid pro quo sexual favors either but am not totally closed to it - It has to feel like the "right thing to do". We all know when that is I am sure. HOWEVER, I would be loath to refuse a sushi dinner every now and again LOL ... I mean real sushi

Gotta go .. please let me know what you think because I am writing this in realtime

until next time

Be Well

[willbow]

Ok .. all that said I want to try to connect the dots on all of this.

I had talked about other forums and venues about inducing lactation and adult breastfeeding. If you have been there for any length of time you will have noticed a pattern to the postings. Not necessarily in any particular order of relevence ......

1) Males seeking nuring partners. Proximity and time are a must ... you'll see all kind of wild offers from men to woman where the proximity makes any meeting or chance of success impossible!

2) Unrealistic expectations from the women. On the mild side, "Looking for ABF partner ... would like to experience the 'closeness' and 'intimacy' of an ABF relationship ....... hubby or SO not into it". Well, one would hope that 'closeness' and 'intimacy' are an element in an ABF relationship, Indeed, genuine friendship would be much even better and prefered.

It's 5 pm pst now ... I need to come back to this later tonite .... and will edit this preexisting intallment to continue

Please forgive for now