thankyou Xadianx i'll keep you posted

thankyou for the link Liz ive bookmarked it,i did think about going along to the local patchworkers group but after seeing those home sweet home plaque things they always seem to make i decided not to bother

i know there's a problem with hitting the nerves thats always a great risk when having any genital piercings done too although i think from what my piercer ...havnt a clue what they're called lol... told me after i discreetly enquired is that its the clit which can be easily damaged.

we've used needles on my genitals before but not for stitching/suturing and always avoided that particular body part and there's been no lack of sensation or damage done so we're pretty confident about it ...well Icehawk is lol...hopefully it wont be too long now

i always liked the idea of safety pins too and i think they look great in pictures but those were not so confident about