where to stop

[gemmy]

do you ever wonder to yourself where and when you'll want to stop and does it ever worry you? and do you get frustrated if there is nowhere left to go?

over time like most people the things i like and didnt like have changed but im a bit of a thrill seeker too and when we try something new i and luckily Icehawk always want to take it that bit further until its too extreme dangerous and sometimes physically impossible to actually put into practice.

for eg i always was petrified of needles but as with everything i started wanting to try it until it changed from a want to a sort of need so we started with one or two just on my breast then that gradually built up to more and on various parts of my body then came not just the piercing with them but playing while there in needles dont generally produce much bleeding but somehow we've built it up enough to draw quite a bit of blood,now we want to try suturing/stitching...ok not too extreme.

then theres fish hooks which we've built up over time,nasty little things they are lol but addictive too,now we're really looking to try hook suspension ...bit of a leap there lol

but then what? theres not really much further you can take that or at least not to my limited knowledge.
it doesnt worry me that i always want to go to the extreme and beyond if it were possible,but what it does do is make me wonder what we'll do when all avenues have been exhausted.
thats not to say we're not satisfied and we'll always love playing the games we play and theres no end to the imagination and new games,but there will always be that final end to anything we may do and its very frustrating.

a long winded post and im not sure im making any sense to you, but im curious as to whether any of you do and feel the same.

Although hook suspension is not something that at all interests me (yet hehe), I don't think this was the main focus of your question icey but to say what happens when you've 'edged out' on all the play that does interest you - is there such a thing as topping out and dead-ending on fantasies in play?? - I do think it can likely happen and more so if you've been playing a long time together. I guess it's all in the imagination and varying the kind of play you enjoy maybe?

Being relatively green in any sort of 'play' my possibilities are at a max hehe but I do have a similar worry in that I've imagined and fantasized so long about a few different things that it turned out to be relatively boring and not near enough when the act was done *pouts*. Of course this is due to a couple things like not having enough time when playing and not having the required (for me) commitment and heart in it I think. But what do you do when enough is not nearly enough? Seems I'm a greedy gurl who doesn't 'play' as a rule and won't until I find One who is strong enough (maybe that is in itself my problem) but what if what I need is too much and I exhaust all those grand possibilities ahead before I even get out of the gate? lol

Ramblings from a worried newbie's thoughts