I'm bi, switch, and poly, and I'm definitely not confused -- I wouldn't be messing around doing something if I couldn't figure out whether I enjoyed it or not.

I can see how some people in the scene really want to believe that everyone would be happier if they'd just embrace either dominance or submission, but I don't think that's true for me -- I'm more sub than I am dom, but my dom side is an important piece of the puzzle that composes me.