Why does he do this?

[Warbaby1943]

Not in my way of thinking. At least not by what has been described by the original Poster. The original Poster is the Dominant in that Relationship. She is not being Served as She wishes imnsho. Granted that Anyone Human is a person first. But If one has Commited to Serve a Dominant (male or female), then one is to Serve that Dominant, in the ways that Dominant requires or wishes, and find Joy in doing so, even when having to do something one does not especially like, or want to do. So long as doing so does not break any other Agreements/Negotiations between the Dominant and Submissive, exceed's hard limits, or creates a health or safety issue for Anyone.

In this situation it looks to me as if what is "wrong" is the "pissy acting", sulky, non-compliant Submissive, and the Dominant in this Relationship not being in Control. Not trying to be or sound mean or anything. And I don't know why this problem exists? But my best response to this Dominant Lady is to Take what She wants.

Respectfully~SidheWolf

I may be entirely off base here but I get the idea that they switch rolls occasionally. So couldn't it be that he just didn't feel like playing the submissive that night? He does have that right, doesn't he? Another possibility is that he may never really feel comfortable at all in the submissive roll. Maybe some serious discussion is needed here.