Quote Originally Posted by icey View Post
what makes me kind of sad or reflective i guess is the fact that i am that way if that makes any sense at all.

funnily enough though i had thought about volunteering,to work with an animals rescue type place,i just need to get the confidence and look into it,excersise is a no-go area for me i have a bit of an addictive personality and last time i did that i became obsessed lol ...aaargh this is coming out all wrong,i sound like im whinging or something and im not,think i better shut up now!
*smacks you* lol you articulate just fine gurly :P

I am much the same way in that I truly do like just being at home with my daughter, we don't have to be go, go, go all day everyday and in fact, when we are in that position, I truly hate it - I'm a casual, slow kind of person and more so in the winter where I tend to just hibernate and putter around the house. In the summer we do get out a lot more with camping and things like that but life doesn't have to always be moving ahead at top speed - what works for you and makes you happy is all that matters.

I find myself defending my want to just 'hang' at home to lots of people who say I should be doing this, or doing that - blah - why? I work three jobs (one fulltime and a couple part-time) and spend time with friends here and there and that's more than enough for me. When I'm home, I don't sit and mope, I relax and enjoy it completely

If you aren't working icey hun, you may really enjoy a couple hours a week volunteering with animals if that's a passion for you, it may help release some energy that seems to be niggling at you