Ok .. all that said I want to try to connect the dots on all of this.

I had talked about other forums and venues about inducing lactation and adult breastfeeding. If you have been there for any length of time you will have noticed a pattern to the postings. Not necessarily in any particular order of relevence ......

1) Males seeking nuring partners. Proximity and time are a must ... you'll see all kind of wild offers from men to woman where the proximity makes any meeting or chance of success impossible!

2) Unrealistic expectations from the women. On the mild side, "Looking for ABF partner ... would like to experience the 'closeness' and 'intimacy' of an ABF relationship ....... hubby or SO not into it". Well, one would hope that 'closeness' and 'intimacy' are an element in an ABF relationship, Indeed, genuine friendship would be much even better and prefered.

It's 5 pm pst now ... I need to come back to this later tonite .... and will edit this preexisting intallment to continue

Please forgive for now