Maybe it's not luck. Maybe she's totally hot.
Here's my 2 cents.
Forgetfulness.
You're not motivated by the things you do. If you were, you'd remember. Even if you don't change what you do, you can change how you look at it.
Procrastination.
People who complain a lot, do it because they see themselves as victims. Maybe they are. But complaining about it isn't going to change anything. Stop seeing yourself as helpless. And don't tell yourself that you are. Complaining can be about sorting out ones emotions about an issue. But if you catch yourself complaining about the same thing twice, then just stop, because you're running in a hamster wheel. If you're going to waste your life, then do something good for your soul working out or computer games. Don't waste it whining.
take care.