i cant really answer the question,its something ive always wondered about too as i can kind of understand that some people get their kicks that way sexually although even that is a bit foreign to me but i really cant understand how you can switch from being sub to Dom/me in any other area.

but something else to think about,some switches have either switched from sub to Dom/me because they prefer to start as sub learning from the bottom so to speak,
and others are subs who Top as and when they are told to by their own Dom/mes,which they can sometimes do very well due to good training and practice but inherently they are submissive through and through,which is why they can learn to do it happily and so well i guess, or maybe some start out that way but find it brings out traits that they never knew were hidden deep down?..bit of a conundrum that one lol

just a thought
i cant really answer the question,its something ive always wondered about too as i can kind of understand that some people get their kicks that way sexually although even that is a bit foreign to me but i really cant understand how you can switch from being sub to Dom/me in any other area.

but something else to think about,some switches have either switched from sub to Dom/me because they prefer to start as sub learning from the bottom so to speak,
and others are subs who Top as and when they are told to by their own Dom/mes,which they can sometimes do very well due to good training and practice but inherently they are submissive through and through,which is why they can learn to do it happily and so well i guess, or maybe some start out that way but find it brings out traits that they never knew were hidden deep down?..bit of a conundrum that one lol

just a thought

but i have to ask,what the hell is an 'alpha sub'? i dont think i want to be an alpha anything plain old subs just fine with me lol