ive heard from so many people who have gotten a lot from the munch groups even though our local one was a disappointment ( funnily enough i was actually going to post about that) that i thought on the whole they're worth trying.
im sure the majority are good people.

but from what you've said amethyst its definately not a good idea in your area!
i think the others gave some good advice, its better to be prepared rather than jump in feet first like many of us do.
its worth considering finding someone you feel you can trust to talk with one on one,often its better to find a sub mentor who unless recruiting which is fairly rare in reality has no hidden personal motive.

Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
Just because you're a slave doesn't mean you have to do everything your master tell you to.
you're brave lol i once dared to very tactfully suggest that for the very same reasons and got a real earbashing, mainly from the slaves!