Quote Originally Posted by SubbieTiedUp View Post
i am also not happy sexually..since he isnt fully into BDSM. He gets it, he understands it, he thinks its cool, but isnt his style yano? I need someone hard and demanding, and someone who wont take "no" for an answer. Maybe my standards are to high?! i dont know im lost and confused..
Until they invent a custom made to order Dominant you won't be able to find one that fullfills your every need.

On the other hand, are you aware of what is that you yourself want, or are you still learning about what you enjoy regarding different areas of BDSM activities?

Sometimes as what you are doing now, it is an exploration of different likes and dislikes. The perfect Dom won't just fall into your lap, and it takes time and a bit of effort to find a person compatible to you.
I don't know any submissive who hasn't been lost and confused, so you are not alone in that.

Are you on CR because you have difficulty in orgasms?
I appluad your efforts, and hopefully it helps.

I personally don't get off on CR, and think it should be a hard limit that should never be touched.

I am an orgasm hog though, I sneak them in whenever and wherever I can.
If I am denied, I can become pretty cranky and irritable.