*smiles* You will get there in time HisandHisOnly. Just make sure it is what you really want, are you willing to gift your submission and honour to this Dom, and know that in return he will possess your mind and soul, and the other way around. Allow you to explore what you desire and need. Yes I know all this does take time and patience and trust, but in the Lifestyle you are always learning and growing as people and as partners - is he the one that you see yourself doing this with? Let us know how you progress.