Slave, Submissive, or Somewhere Inbetween

[Ruby]

I was just thinking one day and thought about what I do and, I feel, I do more than what most call a sub and I do less than what most would call a slave. So I combined the words and got slavemissive. Just me thinking.....which some might consider dangerous.

I think your term slavemissive is creative, catchy and am sure many feel the same way you do. Keep on being dangerous and causing others to stop and think.

Everyone needs to find their own niche, and regardless of terminology (and sometimes despite the definitions,) revel in it.

Well said.

[babygirlblue]

My Definitions:

Sub - voluntarily gives up like 90-95% of all control until something bothers them to their Dom.

Slave - gives all control and obedience to their Master.

I am a sub. The word 'slave' has always bothered me. I guess it's because of the usuage in our history. It's always been negative when someone said it. It's hard to think of something good like the word "Slave." Also the master/slave relationships I have seen just have me saying "they're going to far." (i.e. punishing while good friends, who know about their relationship and are into bdsm too, are onlookers.)

That's my two cents.