so.... to speak to Tayler's post.......do you think you should have been given the choice?
or is it just a matter of your parents did what they hoped is a good decision for you, as did you of yours?
if given the choice, for yourself only; to turn it all back to the day....... would you choose differently?
I think we all grow up under our parents influence (good or bad), so maybe I've made her Too liberal but all I know at the end of the day is that gurl is All her own (with some of me in her good conscience, I hope).
She asked me today...."I wonder why I'm not interested in guys and relationships yet?" (and we have talked through the lesbian/bi aspect) - I told her it's likely cause she doesn't feel the intrigue or mystery of sex largely because I've wrecked it for her with knowledge lol and she knows about it so it's no longer an unknown desireable (unspeakable to a lot of parents, talking openly about sex), as it is for many teenagers - she's far too self aware now (good or bad, I'll not know for awhile but feels right)
I do understand, Thrasher, what you mean by "to do it for the cool factor" and that's sad for them, yes. My gurl, and my supporting her in all she desires is paramount.






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