hmmmmm an interesting read indeed - I hadn't read earlier because I know nothing of switching and it interests me not to be such but learning how others feel about it is very cool.

I sub only and it actually used to piss me off when my vanilla partners would say "What do you want me to do" Instant buzz kill, or better yet.."Just have your way with me" Which is another instant kill and I might as well get dressed and leave lol

I've never understood the concept of 'switching' - how can one just turn it on or off but I suppose it gives them the best of both sides of the coin, so to speak so good on them hehe

I think even if I had a Master who wanted us to be with another woman, I couldn't Top her and they would both have to Top me - I truly find it "ikky" to dominate anyone sexually - I'm quite happy in my station in servitude