Quote Originally Posted by Tojo
Hi & welcome Warbaby1943. Glad there's someone here older than me & Oz!

Any Dom or Domme worth their salt (or their money) should listen to what the sub wants, their limits & fantasies.

Otherwise I'd be looking for the 'out' door, the 'off' button or whatever. Be true to yourself.

Hope you enjoy it here.

Tojo
Tojo,

I sure hope she is worth the salt or money because I am very apprehensive at this point and the scheduled session is drawing very near - within the next 21 1/2 hours but who's counting. As I said, I did email her, as requested, with a variety of things (punishments) that I thought I'd be interested in having done to me. Her picture on the NET was very beautiful and I hope I didn't get carried away with things that I won't be able to handle. I am certainly going to ask her for a safe word.

Hope this isn't a violation of this particular forum but I have a question and I hope to get a quick answer. In these professional houses of domination (this one has been around for at least 5 years that I know of) the dildos they use for dildo training and strap ons, do they sterilize them after each use? I certainly hope so. I never thought to ask when I set up the appointment.

Thanks for any help or directions to where I can get an answer quickly.