Hi Pop!
I am Angela, 25. I am married for almost 6 years now, and I want to tell you that it is not unusual at all for a girl to say something like "Whatever happens, please stay out of it" and then flirt her way into a trouble, sometimes a lot of trouble.
I myself started fantasising about BDSm after my first real rape experience when I was 15 - I was with 4 boys then. Second time I was in college, and was raped alone with my best female friend, by 5 boys. I was surprised how easily I accepted that, I was almost "waiting" for it to happen. In a month we had a serious talk with that female friend, and... we decided to do it again... We finally implemented it when I have already been married, and my husband was on his business trip for a few weeks. Her and I went to the other part of our city, and started chatting with a group of teen boys who were playing soccer. We deliberately flirted and teased them, and finally they invited us to their place. There we started "playing prudes". But there was no going back: there were 12 of them, and 2 of us. And we were in their place, nobody knew we were there, and nobody could hear us, so these teen boys could do absolutely anything they wanted to us... We spent 14 hours in their place. After that, we could barely walk - it was really extreme experience... But... we would like to do something like this again. The only thing is that this female friend of mine moved out, and now it's harder to coordinate my husband being out and her being in... So, just to sum up, this sort of behavior is not unusual for women, even married ones.
If this topic interests you, we can discuss it further. Since this topic doesn't seem to rise much interest in here anymore, you can write me at graduatestudent26@yahoo.com
Angela