Hmm...well I don't like to judge folks, especially those I don't know, so I won't say yea or nay to your relationship with your man, but cutting can be a very dangerous activity. Blood-play has never been one of my favorite activities for that very reason. It's too easy to truly hurt someone. If I were you I would try to call that off for a little while and see how he reacts. You may like what he's doing to you now, but what if in the future you change your mind? Will he allow it? This might be a good test of that. Good luck to you Mina.